Girl Out of Order Podcast
Girl Out of Order is not just a podcast—it’s a call to action for the woman who's done shrinking, contorting, and apologizing for who she is. Hosted by Christine Gale, attorney, speaker, identity coach, and unapologetic girl-mom, this show is your go-to space for fierce conversations, gut-level honesty, and radical permission to reclaim the woman you were always meant to be.
Girl Out of Order challenges the belief that women must play small to belong. No topic off-limits and no mask required.
Through solo episodes, powerhouse guest interviews, and Christine’s signature blend of humor, truth-telling, and challenge, you’ll be inspired to drop your sword, stop the self-abandonment, and rise in your worth. Because fitting in is overrated—and being out of order might be exactly what sets you free.
If you’ve ever felt like too much and never enough at the same time, pull up a seat. This is your home.
Girl Out of Order Podcast
Ep. #115 - "I'm So Tired of Being Strong."
“You weren’t designed to carry everyone and everything. You were designed to connect, contribute, and co-create.” Christine Gale
Sister, if you’ve ever whispered to yourself, “I’m just so tired of being the strong one”, this episode is your soul's deep exhale. As we push through the final quarter of the year—juggling holidays, deadlines, and demands—I’m inviting you to take a sacred pause. In this episode, I share a deeply personal exploration of what it means to carry the weight of performative strength and why it's time we start redefining what it means to be "strong."
We talk about the generational patterns that teach us to power through, the costs of constantly holding it all together, and—most importantly—how we can begin to surrender with grace. I offer you tangible, gentle strategies to lay down your sword and make space for softness, support, and genuine strength. This conversation is an invitation to choose curiosity over control and connection over exhaustion.
Episode Summary:
[1:56] - The epidemic of strength: Why women everywhere are feeling emotionally and physically depleted
[4:17] - Generational strength: The toxic cycles passed down from mother to daughter
[6:45] - Survival mode: The root of always needing to be strong and how it shows up in our lives
[12:41] - The real cost of holding it all together: Peace, joy, and connection
[18:21] - Four steps to dropping your sword and embracing micro-surrenders
[22:13] - How to practice receiving and shift from control to curiosity
[26:52] - Create your “peace protocol” for those moments you’re tempted to take over everything again
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