Girl Out of Order Podcast
Girl Out of Order is not just a podcast—it’s a call to action for the woman who's done shrinking, contorting, and apologizing for who she is. Hosted by Christine Gale, attorney, speaker, identity coach, and unapologetic girl-mom, this show is your go-to space for fierce conversations, gut-level honesty, and radical permission to reclaim the woman you were always meant to be.
Girl Out of Order challenges the belief that women must play small to belong. No topic off-limits and no mask required.
Through solo episodes, powerhouse guest interviews, and Christine’s signature blend of humor, truth-telling, and challenge, you’ll be inspired to drop your sword, stop the self-abandonment, and rise in your worth. Because fitting in is overrated—and being out of order might be exactly what sets you free.
If you’ve ever felt like too much and never enough at the same time, pull up a seat. This is your home.
Girl Out of Order Podcast
Ep. #120 Ask Better Questions, Create a Better Life
“You don’t have to muscle your way into a new life. You just have to change the question.”
What if the anxiety you feel, the pressure you carry, and the burnout you’re battling aren’t coming from your circumstances—but from the questions you’re asking yourself every day?
In this deeply personal and powerful episode, we unpack one of the most life-changing concepts I've ever applied: the Primary Question—the unconscious question shaping your mindset, emotional state, decisions, and ultimately, the quality of your life.
Through heartfelt stories from her own life, her work as a family law litigator, and a vulnerable conversation with her daughter, Christine reveals how poor-quality questions like “Am I doing enough?” or “What will they think?” quietly fuel anxiety, scarcity, self-judgment, and overwhelm.
This episode is part of the releasing season—letting go of patterns that no longer serve you—and it offers practical, grounded tools to help you wake up, get honest, and rewrite the question running your life.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- What a primary question is and how it silently governs your thoughts and choices
- Why anxiety often isn’t about what you’re doing—but what you’re checking for
- How poor-quality questions create pressure, judgment, scarcity, and burnout
- Why awareness is the key to releasing what no longer serves you
- How to upgrade your questions to create calm, clarity, and agency
- Simple daily practices to create a true mind shift, not just positive thinking
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